Moving to New York City is exciting, but let’s be honest, it’s not cheap. Whether you’re a student, young professional, or someone just trying to make city living more affordable, having a roommate can make a big difference.
But in a city this big, with so many people and so many personalities, how do you find the right roommate, not just someone who pays rent, but someone you can actually live with?
Here are some smart, real-world tips to help you find a solid roommate for your NYC move.
- Know What You’re Looking For (Before You Start Searching)
Before you post anything online, get clear on what matters to you. Do you need a quiet roommate who works 9–5? Someone who’s clean, non-smoking, pet-friendly, or okay with guests? Make a list of your non-negotiables and your “nice to haves.”
Don’t just think about personality, also consider lifestyle. Are you an early riser? Do you work from home? What’s your ideal home environment?
- Use the Right Platforms
There are plenty of ways to find roommates in NYC, but some platforms are better than others. Popular options include:
- Facebook groups (search “NYC Roommates” or “NYC Housing”)
- Roomi or Roomster
- SpareRoom (great for verified listings and profiles)
- Craigslist (still active, but be cautious and screen thoroughly)
- Bumble BFF (yes, really, some people use it to find roommates too)
Be specific in your ad: include your budget, preferred neighborhoods, move-in date, and a little about your living style.
- Prioritize Safety and Screening
NYC is a big city, and unfortunately, not everyone online is trustworthy. Always meet potential roommates in person (or at least on video chat) before committing. If you’re moving into an existing apartment, ask to tour the place first.
Be sure to:
- Ask for references from previous roommates or landlords
- Do a quick online search or background check (especially if you’ll be on a lease together)
- Trust your instincts, if something feels off, it probably is
- Talk Money Early
Money conversations might feel awkward, but they’re essential. Make sure you’re on the same page about:
- Monthly rent and utilities
- Security deposit
- How you’ll split bills (evenly or based on room size?)
- Payment deadlines and methods
If you’re sharing a lease, make sure both names are on it, or be clear about who’s legally responsible if something goes wrong.
- Get Everything in Writing
Even if you’re not best friends, treat your living arrangement like a business agreement. Put expectations in writing, including:
- Rent amount and due date
- Cleaning responsibilities
- Guest policies
- Shared item agreements (groceries, toilet paper, etc.)
You don’t need a formal contract, but having a roommate agreement can prevent future disagreements.
- Consider a Trial Run
If possible, try to live together short-term before committing to a year-long lease. Subletting for a month or two is a great way to see if you’re a good fit without locking into a long-term situation.
- Be Honest and Open
Roommate relationships work best when both people are upfront from the start. Don’t pretend you’re okay with noise or pets just to secure a room. Be yourself, communicate clearly, and look for someone who does the same.
Finding a good roommate in NYC takes a little effort, but it’s worth it. The right person can make your move smoother, your rent cheaper, and your new apartment feel a lot more like home.
And once you’ve locked in your new living situation, DA Moving is here to help you get there. Whether you’re moving into a shared apartment in Brooklyn or setting up your first place in Manhattan, our team makes the process stress-free from start to finish.
